by Shannon Penrod
Like everyone else my family is trying to “making it work” in an economy that doesn’t make sense and simply isn’t working. We’ve tried to apply the Suze Orman rule of “Do we need this or do we want it?” to every purchase. Sometimes it’s not black and white. This last week there was Little League to sign up for. My son is 5; this is the first season he can play. At $225 to register and about another $75 worth of equipment to get him ready for the first game – I was having chest pain. I certainly can make the argument that Little League is not necessary – or is it?
My little guy is recovering from Autism. Baseball is social, it requires standing in the sun (something my vitamin B deficient son requires) it teaches lessons of flexibility, team work and sportsmanship. Yes, he could wait and play next year, but next year he won’t have the opportunity to play T-ball, the kids will already have skills and he won’t be in “the window” anymore.
“The Window” is the all important time when children with autism are capable of making strides that cannot be matched later. Trust me the window is a powerful argument, one that has carried our family right to the doorstep of bankruptcy.
So we paid for Little League, and I agreed to do some work that would take away some of my private time. It’s called making it work. Ultimately, it was worth it. We are only a week into baseball and clearly my son has found a new love. I’m yawning but what are a few yawns when you are in the window?