Archive | March 7, 2012

They Got Along without me…Will They need me now? By Al Detres for Military Mom Talk Radio

One of the scariest things about returning home after a lengthy time away is the thought that since your family survived without you, why and how will they need you when you come back? There are a couple of things to keep in mind here. First of all, whether they just barely survived by eating fast food and turning yesterday’s shirts inside out to wear another day or actually thrived while you were gone, you need to know that you were missed. No matter how they got by without you, there is nobody in the world who can love the way you love your family. Step one is to let them know that you and your love are back for them.

Secondly, since your family is still alive, your role may have changed and time needs to be taken to find out where you now will fit in. This can be a freeing experience when you come to realize that before you left, the most important thing that you may have done was cook and clean. Since you weren’t there to do that, it was still done, which means that they can do those things (not as well as you, of course), but that may free up your time to spend helping with homework or playing games with them.

The best way to find out how you will be needed now that you are back home may be to quietly watch how your family interacts and look for opportunities to enhance that interaction, without interfering or trying to change how they interact. Pray for the insight and opportunity to see and fill those areas of need that aren’t being filled. Ask how you can help; share your ideas that you have learned while abroad. Make yourself available and be open to whatever role you will now fill. The greatest commodity that you can give to your family, no matter how long you were away – is you!

Al Detres is a father of four and a Christian Minister inOregonwho has a son currently serving in the US Army .

2012 Camp Pendleton, CA Career Expo Information sponsored by Military.com and the NCOA by Doris Rivas-Brekke

I am excited to share with you more important career opportunities from the 2012 Camp Pendleton, Calif. Career Expo Information sponsored by Military.com and the NCOA (Non-commissioned Officers Association)!  These companies want to talk to military active duty and veterans about career and educational options.

1.  The Lotter Group, www.lottergroup.com, a veteran owned company, focuses on family finance issues.  This company loves military people because they follow protocols.  Phone 949-253-8500

2.  www.uscourts.gov  – many jobs available at this site!

3.  www.StrategicOperations.com –   they actually advertise at their web site for wounded veterans to apply for positions!

Educational Institutions:
1.    Pepperdine University-  very big name university!  These people told me to pass along to our listeners to “not be afraid” to apply here.  This university welcomes military people!  Ask for Barbara Moore; email: Barbara.moore@pepperdine.edu 310 568-5744.  Tell her Military Mom Talk Radio sent you!

2.    Southern New Hampshire University-  brocheure states the university “ designed to help you advance your military or past service career…has been serving veterans and active duty military members for nearly 80 years…”   Reach out to: Gary Pounder, MPA, Major, USAF(Ret.), Director of Military Initiatives;  email: g.pounder@snhu.edu

I’ll have more career information in my next article.

– Doris Rivas-Brekke, “News U Can Use” for Military Mom Talk Radio

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